Dr. Gabor Maté (with Jay Shetty): Self-Improvement Can Be an Attack on Yourself

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JqHaPGLgW6I

Thomas Merton: how we live in other peoples' minds...

born for love: how other people think of us?

do they (other people) see us?

who we are and how they see us...

we have trouble loving people the way they need to be loved

culture's incapacity to see people as they really are

midlife crisis

recognition and curiosity, actually dealing with our own stuff